It’s maybe be because you just don’t! Some of us are born (chosen) to be who we are, and some made, because of the powers of influence surrounding us, be it good or bad. One thing that I have learned is that ancestry also plays a very important part of who we are, including genetics which can be hereditary and generational.

Everyone who was acknowledge as the chosen people of God are from the seed of Abraham according to biblical teachings, Deuteronomy 14:2 For you are a people holy to the Lord your God. Out of all the people on the face of the earth, the Lord has chosen you to be his treasured possession. Galatians 3:29 (NIV) If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise. Whenever you’re feeling like you don’t belong as a Christian repeat these bible verses.

Discovering who you are in relationship with God from biblical perspective or profoundly from an unexpected experience, you’ll find peace within and everything around you. But if you don’t, you’ll struggle and find yourselve conflicted, so conflicted about life, that you become depressed and anxious trying to understand how can you fit in with people.

You can feel like an alien in the world especially in relations to others. People are selfish, greedy, boastful, liars, manipulators, murderers, envious, adulterous, fornicators, hateful and the list goes on. “Lord help us!” How could you be righteous in a world that is filled with so much wrong? There’s no way you can easily escape the feeling of being different, especially when you’re chosen by the Lord for his will and purpose. You just can’t do bad things or be like everyone else. Jesus must have felt the same way growing up among us. Can you identify yourself as Jesus, wanting righteousness in a world that fights against you?

John 15:19 If you were of the world, the world would love its own; but because you are not of the world, but I chose you out the world, because of this the world hates you. The reason you feel like you don’t belong is because when the negative energies and forces surrounding you are heighten in the earth, like an angel from heaven, you long for the peace you once knew within your spirit. The evil in our world is a weight too heavy to carry.