Be angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath, Ephesians 4:26.

Bill Crosby, R. Kelly, Michael Jackson and now they don’t want to allow Kobe Bryant rest in peace without taking another shot at a brother legacy, throwing it down the sewer. I get it, it hurts me too. I love and care for them also and yes, it look and sounds very detrimental for all brothers. Scripture declares we have all sinned and fall short Romans 3:23. He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone, John 8:7. And we are all troubled by the bad publicity of these allegations and the stigma it holds for the future generations.

“Man down, man down!” Aren’t we supposed to be our brothers  keeper? Yes we are! But we have to be very much conscious minded and aware of our conducts and the implications it has as grown-up on the younger generation so they would not be lead on the wrong path in dealing with such a situation as with Gail king being threaten. She shouldn’t have to terrified for her safety, and be driven into mental depression over misunderstanding. The internet should not have been the platform to have aired your disapproval and anger. And now that the truth has been revealed where is the apology or at least a dialogue to rectify all damages?

Forgiveness can be so hard I understand especially when your emotionally depleted over the lost of a love one and being falsely accused or whatever the circumstances. Love is the strongest weapon to overcome unforgiveness. 1Corinthinians 13:4-8 “Love does not dishonor others.” I can see both of you are hurting and it’s all about love. “Love always protects, always trust, always hopes, and always perseveres.”

Forgiveness, everyone loves to say it’s not being about the other person, but you and freeing yourself. But when you feel the other person was wrong for bring certain things up you wish was left in your past and you’ve done everything you can to make up for you youthful indiscretions of life. The devil the wicked adversary who is a liar, is responsible for bring about despair in people’s lives. He’s the reason why in the midst of tragedy bad things just seems to keep happening. When God forgive it is whipped completely away like it never happened and to give us a chance to start anew. Forgiveness should be as the Lord prayer says, “forgive us our trespass as we forgive those who trespass against us.” Forgiveness is to move forward, letting go of what caused pain and not rehashing it. Like being sick and now you’re healed, why would you want to go back to be sick all over again? It’s done, over with, finished!!!

It hurt because when someone is not here to defend themselves no one should speak ill of the deceased. The wages of sin is death, sometimes we forget Jesus payed the price on cross for us all. If he could turn a murderer who persecuted his follower into his servant to work for his cause, and take a thief crucified with him to paradise. Then everyone of us when we die the breath of life goes back to our maker. He searches our hearts and our minds and his way is not like ours. Jeremiah 17:10, Isaiah 55:8-9

We live in a world that should have the understanding to be human is not to be perfect and yet we put this kind of weight upon each other with our judgements.